Sunday, July 4, 2010

The rules don't apply to me

I watched State of Play over the weekend; engaging, but not great film making to be sure. The plot begins with a married congressman having an affair with a staffer. Hmmm, where'd they get that idea? As in real life, the fictional representative believed he could get away with it and keep the affair hidden. Well, no.

I was wondering why it is that people in power -- men mostly -- always seem to think they can get away with stuff? Now of course powerful men do get away with stuff all the time, but that's mainly rape the environment, spit on the constitution, defraud the American people kind of stuff. When it comes to shtuping your secretary, that usually gets found out. Why don't they know that?

Cut to last week, driving to work. I saw a large man wearing a t-shirt that proclaimed, in very big letters, "the rules don't apply to me."

And there's my answer. This guy, like the congressman in the movie, like certain senators and presidents, thinks the rules don't apply to him. And this guy ain't alone. I would argue that we are becoming a nation of selfish egocentrics who think the rules only apply to other folks. Why else do so many of us run red lights but bitch about the people -- not us -- who do? Why do so many of us leave our shopping carts anywhere we want in the parking lot, instead of returning them to the corral? (This is one I DON'T do; I made it a New Year's resolution years ago and have stuck with it). How come so many of us talk on our cell while driving?

Because the rules don't apply to us -- only to them!

I've often said that if America had to fight World War II today we'd lose. We just don't have the willingness to sacrifice and to pull together that we had 70 years ago. As we celebrate Independence Day I fear that the sacrifices made in our name 234 years ago are out of reach for most Americans.

Happy 4th everybody!