Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Riding the California Zephyr

Arlo Guthrie sang about the City of New Orleans, a train I’ve never been on. A few years back Ransom and I took the Lake Shore Limited from New York to Chicago and the Southwest Chief from there to San Bernardino. Today I’m on the California Zephyr. We crossed the Rockies yesterday and are headed west to Emeryville, CA, the end of the line, followed by a 30-minute bus ride to San Francisco.

I’m traveling with my buddy Malette. We spent two nights in Chicago where the highlight was Lyric Opera’s performance of My Fair Lady. There were tempo problems I thought, but it was thoroughly enjoyable nonetheless.

When Ransom and I did our transcontinental trip, we were in a room with a couch facing an easy chair. We could both read or one could stretch out and nap while the other relaxed. We had our own bathroom, with shower en suite.

This is NOT that room! I didn’t do my homework well enough and we are in a "roomette" with two seats facing each other -- close enough together that finding room for four legs ain't easy! Those seats become the lower bunk and the upper bunk drops down from the ceiling. I was in that upper bunk the first night. It was not, I am guessing, unlike being in a coffin: the ceiling was inches from my face and the “bed” (I use the term loosely) was just a tad wider than I. I slept horribly and hardly.

Dinner that night and breakfast in the morning were both acceptable: better than one might expect, but hardly gourmet. The linguine carbonara seemed to have corn and lima beans in it until I realized they were a side dish that shared plate space with the pasta. The morning eggs were fine, but the “flaky” croissant, as the menu dubbed it, was flake free and square-shaped (?)

But the views! The Rockies were spectacular. A late spring storm last week left snow everywhere, even in the trees. I took lots of short videos, none of which will do it justice I’m sure.

Whatever shortcomings Amtrak delivers it also provides the best way to see this magnificent country.


Addendum: there’s no Wi-Fi onboard so I can’t post this yet. We just left Winnemucca, NV – four (4!) hours late. Clearly we won’t be painting the town in San Francisco tonight.

Addendum redux: the Sierra Nevadas were also gorgeous. Not as impressive perhaps as the Rockies, but beautiful nonetheless. We remained approximately four hours late so bolted the train at Richmond and took BART into the city. Just spent the night at the lovely Executive Hotel Vintage Court -- thank you, Ransom, for making the reservation. Now on to look for Tony Bennett.

Saturday, May 13, 2017

Looking back

I watched Lazy Eye the other night, a 2016 film by director Tim Kirkman, that explores the idea of carrying a torch for 15 years and trying to rekindle a relationship. Dean and Alex spent a summer together in New York City long ago and now Dean is a successful LA graphic designer – and married. Alex has never gotten over Dean and tracks him down to try to win him back. It’s not a great film and you can guess how it ends (hint: Dean remains married).

But it resonated with me because all my life I have reached into to my past to reconnect. As an Army brat, I never had the luxury of spending years and years with the same friends. I’d meet people and move, meet people and move. I’ve never tried to restart an old love, but, nonetheless, a lot of the territory Lazy Eye covered was familiar.

In 1974 I spent the month of August on the road. I left Richmond for a night in Charlottesville and then on to Toronto, Detroit, Montreal, Rochester, Provincetown & New York. I visited my friend TMcD in Detroit, my family in Rochester and a budding boyfriend in New York, but in the other cities I knew no one and counted on the kindness of strangers for lodgings.

Montreal was difficult. I spoke no French and three men in a row whom I approached in a gay bar shrugged and said, “Je ne parle pas anglais.” (Or did they say “Je ne suis pas intéressé”?)

I finally met John Campbell and spent 4 wonderful days with him. I won’t flesh this story out because I already told it here.

I’ve never seen John since but I remember him well. I am happily married and have no need of rekindling anything with anyone, but I would nonetheless love to see him again, just as I would love to see Gary Winston, Will Buergey, Tina Rice, Sandy Adams, Stephen Wells, Cheryl Hewitt, Craig Simmons, Karle Rhodes and Patrick Meehan, all important people from my past with whom I have lost touch. As I get older those memories seem to mean even more. The highlight of the last months has been my reconnection with Art and Ed Friedman, high school friends I hadn’t spoken to in almost fifty years.

Does all this mean I’m less a cynic than before? No, not really. Just a cynic with a warm and fuzzy streak.